Everybody always talks about how they get sooo hot (and bothered) when it comes to sex, but no one ever discusses the fact they like getting cold as a kink – but they do. Sensory play is alive and well and is much like a Katy Perry song. Hot then cold. Yes then no. In then out. Up then down. And while there’s a lot that goes into tickling the senses (among other things), it’s the temperature sensations that get things heated and makes sex cool.
Did Cupid leave you sweaty and satisfied or were you left hermetic and horny? Whether you’ve hung from the chandeliers with nipple clamps swinging and a ball gag in your mouth or dusted the crust off your hoo-hah for the horny hijinks that only the lonely understand, we’ve got you covered with the kinky sex toys your cave is craving.
We’re going to assume you know the basics. You’ve met someone who razzles your dazzle. After getting consent, you’re ready to make some noise. You could jump straight into pounding on the pussy OR you could show that you know what you’re doing. Foreplay is important for all parties involved but for THIS article, we’re focusing on the female erogenous zones: the what, the where, and the how.
The Kama Sutra is often thought of as being the pseudo “Sex Bible” wherein ancient Indian religion, analogies on relationships and courtship, and sexual advice create their own kind of trinity for how people can lead fruitful, fulfilling lives that follow the ancient Indian perspective of “Godliness”. Now, from a gay perspective, it is historically safest to approach anything to do with organized religious text with an air of caution. But history is exactly where we need to look to see how the Kama Sutra and Indian society viewed homosexuality.
We all understand sex to be penetration, but that isn’t exactly always the case. Penetrative sex is commonly referred to as intercourse, but if that’s not your bag, there is an alternative! Outercourse is non-penetrative sex. What that means is different for different people, but the most important takeaway is… sex. gets. BETTER. when it isn’t “sex”. Outercourse is one of the most sensual and thrilling ways to make your partner feel good. It can be incredibly intimate while producing some of the most mind-blowing orgasms you’ve ever had… so what are you waiting on to try it?
I know, shocking, right? Sex toys aren’t just for people with vulvas! There’s a whole industry of sex toys for people with penises and butts and we’re going to talk about it. For starters, you need to decide what part of your body you want to stimulate. If you’re into penis stimulation, you have a choice in the kind of sex toys you may want. Most people are familiar with masturbators.
